Successful people are in charge of their own attitude and
motivation. They know that the drive comes from within, not from
outside; not from others. Can we learn to be successful? Can we learn to
be in charge of our attitude and motivation?
The beginning of all
attitude is faith. We either have faith in fear, or we have faith in
our future. We either believe that others have power over us, or that we
have the power to respond successfully to our challenges and
circumstances
.
Much of our culture and society encourages victim
status, and rewards a victim mentality. But, victims are pawns. Victims
are powerless. Victims are at the mercy of other people and
circumstances
.
But, a victim mentality can be overcome. When a
person gets sick and tired of being a victim, they are already moving
toward a change in attitude. You can give up the victim mentality, and
you can develop the attitude and motivation to overcome your
circumstances
.
Where to begin? Do you believe that you are
important? If so, you cannot stay a victim, can you? Do you believe you
have worth? If so, then why would you be satisfied with being under the circumstances ?
Let's
consider an important point right here. If a person has been tepid and
unchallenged in their life choices, it isn't reasonable to expect them
to turn into a Bill Gates or Ted Turner overnight. Gymnasts do not start
out on a balance beam two feet above the floor. They begin with a
balance beam on the floor. As they gain confidence and balance, the beam
is raised a little bit. Then a little bit more. And a little bit more.
So, by the time the beam is full height, they are already accustomed to
the height because they didn't start out there, but they arrived
!
If
you do not have a destination, any road will get you there. Think about
that. It means that when we have no goals, we can take any route in
life, because it doesn't matter. We have put ourself in the hands of
circumstances, or life. We have given up responsibility
In order
to develop a successful attitude and motivation, we must take
responsibility for our choices and our lives. Success is a choice. So is
our attitude. When we change our attitude, the motivation will come.
Do
you believe you can be a success? Do you believe you can reach your
goal? Do you believe that you can learn everything you need to know to
attain your destination
?
If you believe it, you can achieve it. You have found the source of attitude and motivation within yourself.
Pastor Dan Jenkins is a positive living and motivational coach
Pastor Dan Jenkins has been involved in motivation and positive living since 1976. His involvement includes the Dale Carnegie Course, Adventures in Attitudes, and personal studying of positive mental attitudes from Zig Ziglar, Robert Schuller, Og Mandino and others
Pastor Dan Jenkins has been involved in motivation and positive living since 1976. His involvement includes the Dale Carnegie Course, Adventures in Attitudes, and personal studying of positive mental attitudes from Zig Ziglar, Robert Schuller, Og Mandino and others
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